{"id":2560,"date":"2017-05-01T13:19:12","date_gmt":"2017-05-01T17:19:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/futurpreneur.ca\/?p=2560"},"modified":"2024-02-13T11:51:12","modified_gmt":"2024-02-13T16:51:12","slug":"successful-entrepreneurs-need-to-be-selfish-sometimes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/futurpreneur.ca\/en\/blog\/successful-entrepreneurs-need-to-be-selfish-sometimes\/","title":{"rendered":"Successful Entrepreneurs Need To Be Selfish Sometimes"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>Written by: Chakameh Shafii, CEO\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/tranqool.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">TranQool<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p>As entrepreneurs, we all have one thing in common; our passion for our companies. There was a motivation behind why we chose this lifestyle and started our businesses. The motivation was to have a social impact, to make people&#8217;s lives easier or to make them laugh. That motivation was important to us.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes our drive and passion take us into long periods of solitude. Friends and family might find these periods unacceptable and most health professionals advise against it. By solitude, I don&#8217;t mean spending time alone in a dark room meditating but rather spending time with a small group of people in front of computers, whiteboards and meeting rooms.<\/p>\n<p>What many don&#8217;t see or understand is the enjoyment we get from our long periods of being &#8220;away.&#8221; I&#8217;d like to argue that many of these &#8220;away&#8221; moments are euphoric and fulfilling, so much so that we might choose to miss a trip or two because we LOVE spending time on building this thing that we have in our heads. We know that there will be enough time later to go &#8220;away&#8221; like everyone else.<\/p>\n<p>As the CEO of a company that focuses on mental health, people often ask me about the side effects of working too hard or not getting enough time off. I need to make this disclaimer that what I am talking about here is in no way promoting the notion of working until we burn out. It&#8217;s extremely important to take time off and re-energize but doing it at a time that works for YOU! And spending those few hours that you have (that you&#8217;re not sleeping) doing something that makes you happy.<\/p>\n<p>Something we often hear (and I personally swear by) is the importance of physical activity. Going for a run or to the gym at midnight, 5 a.m. or an odd time that fits our calendars is another element of our lives that many don&#8217;t understand. But make no mistake, we need to workout and to produce endorphins to be able to maintain the lifestyle we live.<\/p>\n<p>I think becoming an entrepreneur is not as hard as some might think, but staying an entrepreneur with passion and drive is not for everyone. It&#8217;s not a label of courage or wisdom by any means, it&#8217;s about one&#8217;s personality. We have to spend the time to discover who we are. It takes courage and perception to really know one&#8217;s values before jumping ship and starting a company. But when you&#8217;ve decided to build a business you need to do all it takes, without burning out, and this could mean being selfish.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Selfish by:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Going to the gym to balance your stress or anxiety (every day if you have to)<\/li>\n<li>Spending your hours\/days off catching up on Netflix<\/li>\n<li>Reducing your circle of friends to people who you really enjoy spending time with<\/li>\n<li>Having meaningful conversations with a few instead of casual chit chat with a crowd (because honestly, we get enough of that at work)<\/li>\n<li>Cooking healthy meals for yourself because eating-out can start to take a toll on your body<\/li>\n<li class=\"last\">Missing a few networking events because you have an important birthday or family gathering to go to (trust me, same crowd different part of town in a couple of weeks)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>So the next time a friend or family member calls you selfish or says you don&#8217;t care, tell them this: &#8220;I do care, but I need to take care of myself so that I have the strength to build things that will touch the lives of millions of people, including you! &#8221;<\/p>\n<p><em>This post is also available on <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.tranqool.com\/\" target=\"_hplink\" rel=\"noopener\">TranQool&#8217;s blog<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Written by: Chakameh Shafii, CEO\u00a0TranQool As entrepreneurs, we all have one thing in common; our passion for our companies. There was a motivation behind why we chose this lifestyle and started our businesses. The motivation was to have a social impact, to make people&#8217;s lives easier or to make them laugh. 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